How to start a conversation, when we think what
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Every happened to the guest or host various social events - parties, formal dinner party. There are times when if you take off the tongue, our head is empty and does not know how to start a conversation with someone you really want to know and impress.
- Introduce yourself, just tell people your name. Give a hand to shake, squeeze the hand of man stronger but not subdued and relaxed.
- Look around. Decide if there is something interesting that attracts attention and deserves to be considered. The theme of time is a cliche, but if there is anything unusual about him, such as unusual for the season temperatures, winds and rains, use them as a conversation topic. Before appearing at the event, cast an eye on the latest news and interesting events of the day, some of them can become a great topic for conversation.
- Make a compliment. But do not tell anyone that has a great style if that find it disgusting. Instead, find something - shoes, handbags, earrings, tie that you really like and say it sincerely owner. A sincere compliment is a great way to get acquainted with someone. But be careful with compliments on the face and body of man, because they may be double-edged sword, if the person does not like this part of your body.
- Ask questions. Most people love to talk about themselves, are prone to do. Do not talk too much about yourself, not to create the impression that you are self-centered narcissus. "Have you seen So-and-movie", "Have you read So-and-her-which book? '" What do you think ... ..? "Ask questions that predispose to a long and circumstantial answers. For example, "Great bag , where they buy it? "And then the woman can tell a whole story - when she saw it, what is interesting happened the day he went to the store, how he behaved clerk, etc. If you simply say "I like your watch," a person will respond with "thank you" and the conversation will end. Beware, however, can not get into too personal territory and your caller feel intimidated by your curiosity. Avoid discussing politics, religion, age, and love affairs with people who do not know or know of recently.
- Watch his interlocutor in the eye. Maintaining eye contact is very important to win people's trust. Also refer by name to the caller, so it will draw attention to what you are talking about. Smile often and laugh when the other person makes you a witty remark.
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On the occasion of seeing the other person in the eyes I would add: If you worry about someone watching eyes, watch the tip of his nose, no one will notice. Try the store with a stranger, or a shopkeeper. If you watch the strange, then everything is fine.
Me not at all difficult for me to start a conversation unless I fear to a person!