Interesting
dialogs
I decided to start this thread as a continuation of my posting "How to start a conversation when you have nothing to say" that proved one of the most intriguing topics and reading in my humble and recent blog. [Superemotions file = "icon_wink.gif" title = "Wink"]
So ... once we started talking, you keep it interesting topics. On the one hand exciting conversation stimulating our interlocutor to speak and share, on the other - allows us to represent our interests, values and beliefs.
There are people who believe that if you talk about politics, economics and religion will stand in the eyes of the other person with knowledge. Indeed, a competent person to speak on these issues must be quite knowledgeable. However, these topics remain less dangerous because they risk to touch upon our interlocutor and his perspective on these sensitive issues.
Fortunately, there are plenty of other areas that are great sources of dialogs.
Travel
Travels offer countless opportunities for a long and pleasant conversation. Everyone is traveling somewhere in their lifetime and has gathered an impression and memories you want to share with others. It may be that a caller you have been on a trip to the same places, but have gotten different impressions. And may you have neither a common destination and to make your conversation more interesting because you and he / she will learn new and interesting facts about the unknown place. Perhaps to dream together as express aloud what are the places in the world dream to visit.
New technologies and inventions
In high-tech times we live in, the topic of new technologies is extremely favorable. Every day I think and invent all sorts of useful or useless gadgets that facilitate or complicate our everyday life. Think about how many thousands of car models, software, phones, computers, laptops, etc. constantly coming on the market? And have you not read an impressive article about the recently developed revolutionary medicine? You can not be aware of all the news, but maybe have heard about some innovations which are unknown to your caller. Impress him with it.
Children
Children do not have brakes [superemotions file = "icon_smile.gif" title = "Smile"] But you should have. Does a mother starts talking about his gardzhe it difficult to leave to be interrupted and stopped only after she has told the smallest details of everything for their children, ranging from "what I had yesterday," "what the doctor prescribed medication we "and ending with a sublime dignity of the child, his skills and abilities. This is a great conversation between two mothers, or other person but if you have children sabesednichkata similar theme can only be frustrated and bored him to death.
For animals with love
Almost all people love animals, so you can begin bold theme for your favorite animals - wild, rabbits, pet. Be careful though, because it can happen to your caller has an unpleasant memory or phobia of certain animals. It is not touching the ground to prevent unpleasant expression on his / her Once you are sure your caller is willing to subject the animals, feel free to tell us about your pet or an impressive program on Animal Planet, you've seen recently.
Art
Do not necessarily think that this is a risky topic. True, not everyone is interested in fine art and applied arts, but most people go to the theater, watch movies, listen to music. Look, listen. You can not have you around paintings, photographs or beautiful object which can pay attention to sounds or music to express that opinion. Once you see the other person your interested, you can go deeper in the topic of art, which is most similar.
Culinary
Cooking and recipes have always been fertile and delicious topic of conversation. People love to exchange recipes and tips for preparing tasty dishes. Do not be afraid to talk about cooking, even if you do not cook at High / ka. Surely you have at least a few "your" recipes that are extremely successful. At worst, you can discuss food restaurants you visit and your preferences.
Tactics: Have you ever?
It is very easy and non-binding way to keep the conversation and show interest in personality, interests and life of the caller. At the same time, the very form of asking questions of the type ever done something you / Have you ever had something sounds too engaging for you and personal to the person you ask. If you consider your question rude, he can end the topic with a short negative answer, but if he liked the question and produce pleasant emotions of unforgettable memories, he will gladly tell you a long and wide about their experiences. When you choke on such matters, and you yourself must be prepared to talk to them and to express your experience and your great desire to do what you ask the caller.
- Does it have a television?
- Have you sung in public?
- Bleaching you hair ever?
- You ate frogs' legs?
- Did you ever gift you really hate? (In this connection, it may be helpful to read How to react to the gift that we do not like )
- Have you ever Cooking dinner alone for more than 15 people?
- Hampered and you fell you to other people?
- Have you ever worked as a volunteer?
- Have you climbed a tree
- Do you have a loved one who lived to be 100 years?
- Ride you horse?
- Jump you bungee?
- Drive a racing car?
- Someone fooled you it is for something?
- You fallen in love at first sight?
- Have you met any famous person?
- Have you slept in a tent?
All the above ideas for discussion are common, universal and do not enter too much into privacy rights. Why are appropriate in a conversation with someone you do not know well or is just not so close. If you decide that you want to know better your interlocutor and enter closer to his world, you can use any of the following questions which prompts him to reveal to you. But be careful with people you do not particularly close - might consider questions too personal and affecting. However, if your caller be open to such questions may hear a lot of interesting, romantic, funny, adventurous and fun stories [superemotions file = "icon_cool.gif" title = "Cool"]
A little more personal questions you ask at a later stage of the conversation or the next call:
- Who is the most interesting person you ever met?
- At what place in the world you necessarily want to go?
- What event has changed most dramatically your life?
- What is the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
- What man had the most influence in your life?
- Is there something you've never ever done, and you want much to do?
- What is the best quality that you inherited from your parents?
- From what you have learned the most in your life?
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